THE RIB TRIBE
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“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” - Frederick Douglas
"Prevent domestic violence—a crime and an ACE—all in one place."
In honor of Yolanda Kelly, whose life was tragically taken by her partner, we dedicate this program. Her mother, our friend Carmita Kelly, knows that such tragedies can be prevented by addressing unhealed adverse childhood experiences. As we gather to remember Yolanda, we come together with a shared commitment to ensure that it never goes too far again.
Your RIB TRIBE ticket grants you access to:
Know someone who could benefit from being a founding RIB TRIBE program participant?
You can sponsor a seat or donate to the general fund here: https://bit.ly/RIBTRIBEDONATION
Let's come together before it goes too far.
We encourage you to help support this program by donating.
Click the link below to contribute and make a difference.
Registration to join the RIB TRIBE can be found here, limited seats available
https://bit.ly/The2024RibTRIBE
Can't Attend but want to contribute, donate below!
https://bit.ly/RIBTRIBEDONATION
Your RIB TRIBE ticket grants you access to:
- Strong course facilitators and subject matter experts
- An emotionally safe environment where vulnerability is welcomed
- Three immersive in-person sessions, each spanning three hours
- Exclusive LinkedIn and Facebook groups focused on advancing emotional intelligence and non-violent communication
- A RIB TRIBE kit, equipped with essential tools to support your healing journey
Know someone who could benefit from being a founding RIB TRIBE program participant?
You can sponsor a seat or donate to the general fund here: https://bit.ly/RIBTRIBEDONATION
Let's come together before it goes too far.
We encourage you to help support this program by donating.
Click the link below to contribute and make a difference.
Registration to join the RIB TRIBE can be found here, limited seats available
https://bit.ly/The2024RibTRIBE
Can't Attend but want to contribute, donate below!
https://bit.ly/RIBTRIBEDONATION
Date/Theme |
Topic |
Purpose |
October 5th Theme: "In Those Jeans/Genes" |
The Neuroscience of Domestic Violence and ACEs |
Dive deep into how our genetics and environment shape responses to trauma and domestic violence. Understand the impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) on the brain and explore pathways to healing. |
October 19th Theme: "Microscopically ME" |
Vision Board & Mirror Work |
Join us for a hands-on workshop focused on self-reflection and manifestation. Create a vision board that aligns with your deepest aspirations and engage in mirror work to enhance self-awareness and personal growth. |
October 26th "What’s in Your Junk Drawer?" |
Self-Confidence & Self-Worth |
Discover the hidden barriers that clutter your self-esteem. Learn practical strategies to declutter your mental space, build confidence, and embrace your true worth. |
Echoes of the Past
In the quiet shadows of a child’s room,
Words whispered like sharp shards of glass,
Carving doubts deep into tender skin,
Etching “unworthy” where love should have been.
Each syllable, a blow unseen,
Building walls around a fragile dream,
Turning the innocent heart to stone,
Where warmth and self-worth should have grown.
ACE’s tally up, a silent score,
Of wounds inflicted behind closed doors,
A childhood marred by cruel refrain,
Leaves the soul aching with a nameless pain.
They grow, searching, reaching wide,
For love’s embrace, for a place to hide,
But find in lovers’ arms the same old song,
A dance with demons, where they don’t belong.
Narcissists see the cracks, the gaps,
In hearts conditioned to accept the scraps,
And so the cycle spins, again and again,
Where hurt begets hurt, and pain begets pain.
Oh, how those early words did twist,
Creating victims who still exist,
In the dark, in silence, in fear they lie,
Wondering why they’re the ones left to cry.
But the echoes of the past can fade,
With hands that heal and voices that persuade,
That worth is not in words of old,
But in the strength of breaking the mold.
So rise, dear one, from shadows deep,
Let no abuser’s promise keep
You chained to the wounds of yesterday,
For in your heart, true love can stay.
- Acknowledging ACEs, reclaiming strength.
In the quiet shadows of a child’s room,
Words whispered like sharp shards of glass,
Carving doubts deep into tender skin,
Etching “unworthy” where love should have been.
Each syllable, a blow unseen,
Building walls around a fragile dream,
Turning the innocent heart to stone,
Where warmth and self-worth should have grown.
ACE’s tally up, a silent score,
Of wounds inflicted behind closed doors,
A childhood marred by cruel refrain,
Leaves the soul aching with a nameless pain.
They grow, searching, reaching wide,
For love’s embrace, for a place to hide,
But find in lovers’ arms the same old song,
A dance with demons, where they don’t belong.
Narcissists see the cracks, the gaps,
In hearts conditioned to accept the scraps,
And so the cycle spins, again and again,
Where hurt begets hurt, and pain begets pain.
Oh, how those early words did twist,
Creating victims who still exist,
In the dark, in silence, in fear they lie,
Wondering why they’re the ones left to cry.
But the echoes of the past can fade,
With hands that heal and voices that persuade,
That worth is not in words of old,
But in the strength of breaking the mold.
So rise, dear one, from shadows deep,
Let no abuser’s promise keep
You chained to the wounds of yesterday,
For in your heart, true love can stay.
- Acknowledging ACEs, reclaiming strength.
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Significant Issue: Domestic violence remains a major concern in Orlando, with thousands of cases reported annually.
Alarming Trend: Recent data shows a troubling rise in both the number of incidents and the severity of domestic violence cases in the city. Tragic Losses: The increase in domestic violence-related deaths, such as the tragic case of Capucine Carson, underscores the urgency of addressing this issue. Broader Impact: These incidents are part of a larger national trend, exacerbated by factors like generational exposure to Adverse Childhood Experiences, economic stress, social isolation, and limited access to support services. Immediate Need: The rise in fatalities emphasizes the need for enhanced prevention measures and support for victims to save lives and break the cycle of abuse. Reported Crimes: In 2020, there were 106,515 reported cases of domestic violence in Florida, resulting in 63,217 arrests. Shelter and Advocacy Services: During the fiscal year 2020-21, Florida's domestic violence centers provided 412,360 nights of emergency shelter to 10,287 survivors and their children. Additionally, 191,451 hours of advocacy and counseling services were offered, with advocates creating 150,799 tailored safety plans. Hotline Calls: Florida’s domestic violence hotlines received 72,321 calls from individuals seeking emergency services, information, and safety planning assistance. National Context: Nationally, over 10 million adults experience domestic violence each year in the United States. About 1 in 4 women and 1 in 10 men face sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner during their lifetime, often leading to significant impacts such as PTSD or the need for victim services. |
